You must have experienced serious marital problems with your spouse. USCIS defines these problems as experiencing battery or extreme cruelty at the hands of your spouse. You could be eligible if your spouse has taken advantage of you, threatened you, pushed/hit/scratched/slapped you, or made you do things that you did not feel comfortable doing. Extreme cruelty could take the form of emotional, verbal, psychological, sexual or financial abuse or using your immigration status to control, coerce or intimidate you.